2 of my colleagues got into a conflict last week due to some work issues. I was going to play the role of peace maker, but luckily things seem to go back to normal on the next day. Phew... I don't really know if it is because of my intervention or not, but as long as they are ok, I'm ok.
I'm very scared of witnessing conflicts among friends/colleagues, and I always try to be the peace maker, even though I know that being in such a position is a very 吃力不讨好 task. Conflicts create a very negative aura and I really dislike it. I've already quit 2 forums because of the flames and fights going on in those forums.
6 comments:
Be careful don't be 'bitten' instead when you become the peacemaker...
it happens...it happens more with females than males. correct or not?
angel: yeah i know what you mean... thanks for the reminder
winn winn: yeah, you are right...
aiya be careful lo! esp those 3 gu 6 poh better dun go near them... ;)
It's tough being a peacemaker. Sometimes I just walk out of the office.
Sometimes, I lock the two warring party in a conference room, and tell them if they don't solve it, they stay in the room.
kyh: i agree 100% :P
moz: ya tough indeed.
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